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January 10, 2010

Week in the Life: Sunday, January 10

Today was a glorious day. Post surgery, my life has been limited to my condo, my office, and a few brief trips to the movie theater or a local store or restaurant.  With the amount of ice and snow outdoors, I’ve been afraid of slipping on my crutches and falling. In other words, my world has diminished in size, considerably.

Today, my lovely husband offered to push me in a wheelchair around the Mall of America. I would never have been able to crutch around the full mall, since it is ginormous.  He knew I needed to get out and for five little dollars and a lot of muscle power on his part, we had an adventure.

In my regular non-surgery life, I love the mall. I know malls may seem anathema to poetry, but I find them to be inspiring. There are wonderful people-watching opportunities at malls, from families with children to young couples and tourists. Malls are paragons to our most base desires – intimacy, food,entertainment, status.  They are superficially slick and deeply dysfunctional. To me, they represent everything that is beautiful and awful about our country.

It was by far my most photogenic day and not just because of the change of scenery.  By touring the mall in a wheelchair, I got a whole new perspective.  I had a better vantage from which to observe people and the people were nicer to me than normal.  The products were closer.  The glittering store fronts whizzed past me, since my husband decided that the wheelchair gave us the option to mow down other shoppers.

The pictures, from top to bottom, display a Minnesota-themed jewelry shop, the incredibly creepy Build-a-Bear store, a self-portrait, a caramel corn display, a Fluffie (TM) Throw display, and a sculpture display. The last four were all taken at my husband’s favorite store, Marshalls. The sculpture display was taken by my husband, since they were hung far above my head. I never would have seen them and it is my favorite picture of the day.

Now that I’m at the end of my Week in the Life, I am so glad that I turned this into a seasonal project. Even with the ups and downs of my schedule, it felt good and right to mark time through taking pictures.  Especially on a busy week like this, I’ve needed the space to reflect and write, even if it’s just to write about the minutiae of my day.

I can’t wait to see what my spring looks like.

January 10, 2010

Week in the Life: Saturday, January 9


On Saturday morning, I was recovering from another bout of pain-induced insomnia*. I had slept for about two and a half hours the night before and I was near tears. It was the end of a very long and difficult week and I was at the end of my rope. My boss noticed my state and immediately told me to turn off the lights, lay down on the floor and get some rest.  After finishing up my work (because I’m a masochist), I took her advice.  I took this shot of my office ceiling while laying on my back, my leg propped awkwardly on my desk chair. It is the only picture I took on Saturday.

For the rest of the day, I barely had time for pictures.  There was more trainings for my new staff person, more greeting students, a student government meeting, and my very first class in my positive psychology course.  Even though my experience in the first class was excellent, it was again not very photogenic.  I struggled to focus throughout the class, since it’s very painful to keep my leg in one position for extended amounts of time.

Despite this, I enjoyed spending 4 hours discussing pleasure and happiness with my professor and fellow students.  As one of my classmates remarked, I think this was the longest I’ve ever spent discussing happiness with other people.  I think that’s something that needs to change, not just in myself, but in all of our daily lives.  One of the other students said in class that we don’t wake up every day saying to ourselves, Alright, I’m going to pursue happiness today.  We have our to do lists and our hopes and dreams, but they don’t often include pursuing happiness.

What would change if we decided each day to pursue happiness?  How different might our lives become?

* Insomnia Update: On Saturday night, we rented movies and got a pizza. As soon as the movie was playing, I was passed out on the couch. In fact, I slept before the pizza arrived, got up to eat, then slept through the rest of the movie. Then, I went to bed at 8 PM and (with some interruptions) slept until 8 AM. In other words, it’s getting better.

January 10, 2010

Week in the Life: Friday, January 8


During the first week of school, I barely have time to eat lunch and go the restroom on a regular timetable.  Adding photography to the mix  (and then blogging about that photography) has been a challenge, to say the least. I was doing fine until Friday, when classes officially started for the majority of our students.  For the most of the day on Friday, I was assisting students, training our new administrative assistant, and answering panicky emails.  I also got to sub for a literature instructor who was ill and teach 1 hour of African-American literature.  (Oh, how I miss teaching sometimes.)

None of these things are photogenic.  What was photogenic was the beginning of my day, when I was able to snap a few pictures in the coffee shop across from my office. A colleague was running late to the meeting, so I took the opportunity to photograph the salt and pepper shakers, as well as my crutches leaning against the wall. I’ve been trying to get good crutch pictures all week, since they are the mainstay of my life, and this is the first one that I feel is decent.

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